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At "It's Good to Be the Queen" meetings, moms who have only boys get to let their girly sides shine At "It's Good to Be the Queen" meetings, moms who have only boys get to let their girly sides shine Date published: 9/5/2006
By KIM BAER The women gathered. One by one or in groups of two, they walked into the coffee shop near Spotsylvania County Courthouse. Many ordered chocolatey iced coffees topped with whipped cream. Some chose desserts as well, dark fudgy brownies or soft, round cookies. The rich food was fitting for this royal assembly. For on this night, these women were queens. It's Good to Be the Queen is a club for moms who have only boys to get together to celebrate life in boy land. Linda Marie Ford of Dallas, Texas, started the group four years ago. Since then, chapters have formed across the country. Robin Wisner of Orange County, who has two boys, read about the national group in The Free Lance-Star and decided to start a chapter here. Members of the club met for the second time last month at the Spotsy Spot. The women from the local chapter donned pink and silver tiaras. But there's more to this coffee klatch than girl time. If it's true that men are from Mars and women are from Venus, then moms who have only boys spend a lot of time trying to figure out the other species. They have to, they say. It's hard out there for a boy. They've heard the statistics: boys mature later than girls, boys lag behind girls in reading and writing and have more dust-ups at school. They want to make sure that their boys succeed in careers and in relationships. That's why Phyllis Gibson of King George County teaches her two boys to be Southern gentlemen. She reminds them to say please and thank you, to refer to adults as "Mr." and "Mrs." It's why Sarabeth Wallace has learned her two boys' "love languages." She knows one needs cuddle time in front of the TV with Mom, the other loves board game time. As these women shared their stories, others nodded. They know. Many marveled that the same boys who will set up elaborate battle scenes also play "family" with their stuffed animals. "Little boys are so sweet," said Gina Carter. "More than we give them credit for," added Wisner.
Date published: 9/5/2006
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