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Local Marine is killed by sniper Date published: 2/8/2007
BY BRIAN BAER
A scholarship fund has been set up in Frazier's name
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Peoples Community Bank Joshua J. Frazier was scheduled to return from Iraq in April, but decided to re-up for a third tour. The newly promoted sergeant didn't want to leave the young Marines he was now leading on their own. By staying, he told friends and family, he believed he could keep his men safe. The Spotsylvania County Marine was killed by a sniper in Iraq late Monday, his family said yesterday. He was 24. Frazier had been serving in the Ar Ramadi area of Iraq as part of the Company A, 1st Battalion, 6th Marine Regiment. His mother, Shelia Cutshall, last spoke with him Sunday night, when he called home with news of his promotion. "He was upbeat," she said. "I told him I missed him, and he said he missed me, too." Frazier, who left for his second deployment to Iraq last September, also told her about his plan to extend his stay, and the reasons for that. To those who knew him best, it was typical Josh. It was the same guy who would stay with a friend all night after a buddy lost a relative. It was the same young man who would visit a casual acquaintance in the hospital for hours. It was the same person who would spend what little free time he had on leave taking family and friends' kids to Lake Anna and birthday parties. And, above all, they said, it was the same son and brother who would drop anything for his family. Yesterday afternoon, his mom's house was filled with tangible reminders of the Spotsylvania High graduate. At one end of the living room, a family friend held onto "Teddy," the stuffed bear Cutshall received as a gift when she was six months pregnant with her second son. The 5-foot-11, 200-pound Frazier still slept with the bear when he was home. On one couch was a blanket with a dragon on it that he had sent his mom for her 50th birthday. A dragon is a sign of strength in Korea, where he once deployed, he told her.
Date published: 2/8/2007
I was talking to Josh's Dad about how all the Frazier men has such great manners. It was not uncommon for Josh to jump up and give a lady his seat. He was quick to open a door or carry some groceries for a stranger. Josh's Dad said that his father instilled in him that manners didn't cost a thing. Giving respect attracted respect in return. Josh showed an abundance of manners and kindness to everyone he met. Respect and manners is the Frazier legacy, and Josh had it in abundance. RIP Josh
You are one of the fallen, honered marines who made the ultimate sacrifice for our county, and we want to thank you for that. You have set an example for all of us to live life with honor, passion and purpose. How did you get so brave and wise at just the young age of 24? You have raised the bar for all of us to live a life of high moral standards. A life that shows consideration of others and a shared smile. You will be remembered as an honored marine, hero, a son, brother, precious nephew and cousin. RIP
How do you tell your kids that a loved one has passed away? Death is a concept that is difficult to grasp when you are only 9 and 3 years old. When I told my little boy that Josh fought the bad guys and now he is in heaven, he quickly exclaimed - Josh is a Super Hero! He is like one of the Invincibles. Out of the mouth of babes come the most honest truths. That's how Josh will always be thought of by his young cousins. A super hero that has fought the bad guys to keep us safe. RIP Josh Frazier
...when Josh wanted to help his 5 year old cousin fly her kite. None of the adults could get this huge airplane shaped kite to fly. Josh was determined not to let his cousin down so he took off running across the field. He ran so hard his pants began to fall down. With one hand on the kite string and one hand trying to keep a hold of his pants, it was quite a hilarious scene. We all laughed so hard. Josh finally got the kite to fly, and was once again he was a hero in the eyes of a little girl.
I first met Josh at Stef's bridal shower when he stopped by to say hi to the ladies! He was friendly and charming as he made sure to greet everyone there. After he'd gone I realised he'd left without his shoes but according to Rick this was nothing new! I'll remember Josh with a smile as I'm sure will the many other people who had the good fortune to meet him. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Maria & Nat
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