MOTHER, DAUGHTERS WORK TOWARD DEGREES
UMW graduate first in her extended family to graduate from college
BY JEFF BRANSCOME
Date published: 5/10/2008
BY JEFF BRANSCOME
Jane Reeve, 46, will be the first in her extended family to receive a bachelor's degree, but didn't want to attend graduation today at the University of Mary Washington.
Forget all the pomp, she thought. But her family wouldn't hear of it.
"My sister and I kind of bullied her into it and told her that if she didn't walk, we would walk her," said Sabrina Tolson, 28, the older of Reeve's two children.
Sabrina and her sister, Rebecca Reeve, 19, know how hard their mom worked for her Bachelor of Professional Studies degree at UMW's College of Graduate and Professional Studies in southern Stafford County. The three have been attending college at the same time.
Sometimes they would sit in Jane's living room and finish up homework on their laptop computers. They helped one another, but also took part in a friendly competition over who could graduate with the highest grade-point average.
"There's one of us who is slightly edging out the others," said Jane, a Stafford native and computer operations manager for Spotsylvania County's information technology department, where she has worked for 17 years.
That's all she can say, she said with a laugh.
"The competition is not over until each one of them graduates with a four-year degree."
Sabrina, who is married with three children, lives in Yorktown and takes distance-learning courses from Germanna Community College. She expects to receive her associate degree next fall and enroll in another college.
Rebecca is a rising junior at Longwood University, majoring in psychology.
"I don't know how she did it, honestly," she said of her mom. "I was still in high school when she started, and she was at every one of my softball and basketball games."
Jane received her associate degree from Germanna before enrolling at UMW. She had been putting off her education, but enjoyed her first class--an American history course.
"If that hadn't been a good experience, I would've turned around, walked away and never come back," she said. She took four or five classes a semester while working at least 40 hours a week.
Date published: 5/10/2008
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