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Andy Foster ended up with Lisa Shelton's wedding ring by mistake when she gave him some change last week. Foster held on to the ring and when he learned the woman's phone number, he called her and returned it.
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Band of gold leads to a heart of gold
Man returns woman's accidental gift

Date published: 1/13/2010

Sitting in traffic on State Route 3 last week, Lisa Shelton did what she always does. When she noticed a man holding a sign asking for help, she reached toward her car door for some change.

Coming up with nothing, she grabbed change from her wallet, handed it out the window and went on her way.

When she got back to work, she panicked.

Earlier last Wednesday, when she put lotion on her hands, she'd put all her rings in her wallet's change purse. When she went to put them back on, they were all there.

Except one.

Her wedding ring, inscribed with the words, "To the love of my life," by Robert, her husband of five years, was gone.

"I thought I'd taken all the rings out of the coins," she said. "But the wedding band wasn't there."

Shelton, who lives in Stafford County, immediately went back out to Route 3. The man was gone.

Meanwhile, Andy Foster had left his post on Route 3 to go warm up at a friend's house.

Foster, 43, has been homeless for a while, after living arrangements with a friend, then a girlfriend didn't work out. He hasn't worked in three years, since he was injured in a wreck. Then he lost a finger in a chain-saw accident.

He gets food stamps, goes to the free clinic for his medical needs. Sometimes he uses the money he's given to rent a motel room for the night; other times he bunks with friends.

He has put in job applications "everywhere," he said, "but in this economy, no one's hiring."

Back at his friend's house last week, he reached in his pocket to count his change and found the ring.

"I knew right away it wasn't a cheap ring," he said. "I was going to go back out and hope that she'd drive back by so I could give it back. I told my cousin that I had to find her."

Shelton was also looking for Foster, though she knew nothing more than that he had been wearing an Army jacket and had a beard.

A different man was standing in that spot in the Route 3 median now. He didn't know who had been there before him, but thought another man, a few lights down, might.


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BEGGING THE QUESTION: do handouts help?

Micah Ecumenical Ministries operates a cold-weather shelter on State Route 3 in southern Stafford that's open any night the temperature drops below 32 degrees. Those seeking shelter can get a bus from a free dinner at an area church. No one is permitted to walk to the shelter because of safety considerations. Micah's Hospitality Center, which provides information and services, is at 1013 Princess Anne St.



Date published: 1/13/2010



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yaya (posted by JaneyK , Jan. 15, 2010 2:22 pm)    0 likes
I'm glad you got your ring back. God Bless you for caring about those who are less fortunate. People always say to me "you know they are gonna spend that money on alcohol or drugs". My response is usually that it's not my decision what they spend it on once I have handed it to them. I can just do the right thing and hope that the receiver does as well. Pay it forward!!!!!

All I know (posted by yaya , Jan. 14, 2010 4:32 pm)    0 likes
All I know is Andy gave my ring back.... and I think I was pretty safe in the broad daylight with all of those 100 d's of people driving by pretending like they don't see him or any of the others..... just think if what happened in Haiti happened here, hell you could be standing right next to Andy!!!! :) Peace!

Ha ha ha. LesPaul (posted by JaneyK , Jan. 14, 2010 4:19 pm)    0 likes
That was right on time!

Maybe 1958 is afraid (posted by Lespaul , Jan. 14, 2010 4:05 pm)    0 likes
because the guy was exposed to formaldehyde. LOL!

Once again 1958... (posted by JaneyK , Jan. 14, 2010 3:21 pm)    0 likes
Are the kid(s) he fathered yours. If not, it's really none of your business. I understand the frustration at parents who don't pay child support but that has nothing to do with this article. You have yet to identify any reason why someone would not be safe rolling their window down to hand this man a buck or two. You put yourself out there as such a charitable person on Fredtalk, yet you come here and try deter people from being charitable. Guess it's only worthy when it's one of your causes.

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