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Acquaintance Rape: The Common Story and the Real Story
Of course, we do not know what happened in this particular incident, and that's what police investigations are for. But consider these sobering estimates: Only about 5 percent of rapes are even reported to police. About 2 percent to 4 percent of crime reports are considered unfounded. This doesn't mean that they didn't happen, only that there isn't enough evidence to go forward in the legal process.
But just for the sake of argument, let's take the higher number, 4 percent, and assume that it represents false reports. That means that for every 1,000 rapes, 50 are reported and two of those 50 are false. In other words, for every false report, there are about 475 unreported rapes. You tell me which is the bigger problem.
A small number of men commit a large number
Those of us who work within the movement to reduce sexual assault know that "violent rape" is a redundant term, like "free gift." One of the most important factors in survivors' recoveries is the sense that people believe them. Don't revictimize them by suggesting that they are misguided at best and dishonest at worst.
Christopher Kilmartin is professor of psychology at the University