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Spotsylvania family needs help buying a specialized hospital bed for a 13-year-old with cancer who's "had a lot of things taken away from him."
James Dobson, 13, is battling brain cancer and needs a specialized hospital bed at his Spotsylvania County home.
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Lisa Taylor, a co-worker of Cathy's at Mary Washington Healthcare's Homecare America store, is asking the community's help in raising money for the bed.
"Why not this simple wish for such a brave, unselfish boy?" Taylor said. "It really touched my heart."
She said a new one costs $50,000, but the Dobsons said they'd be happy with a used one. The kind James needs costs $8,000 to $10,000, his mother said.
James, whose weight hovers between 94 and 100, has been having a lot of back pain. As his condition has worsened, his skin is more sensitive and brittle, his parents said.
If he develops bed sores and needs to hospitalized, he would go into intensive care because he's on a ventilator. His mother said that would cost the insurance company a lot more than a bed would.
She and her husband, a Spotsylvania animal control officer, are grateful for the ways the community already has helped.
Cathy had to take a leave of absence from her job in January when James got sicker. Family, friends, fellow members at New Heights Christian Church, and "people we don't know" have given money to pay for medical supplies their insurance doesn't cover.
Danny's father stays with James every day. Two of Cathy's aunts come once a week to help with housework.
James' former teachers at Battlefield Elementary School still visit faithfully. They're there every Thursday night during "American Idol" season, to watch the show with James.
Others helped make home renovations when James started using a wheelchair. Another church group plans a fundraiser in December.
Cathy, who wears a black wristband with the word "BELIEVE" in bold white letters, said their faith, help from others and James' positive outlook keep them going.
"He says he'll be OK, that God will take care of him," she said. "He's banking on that miracle, and that's what keeps us going."
Cathy Dyson: 540/374-5425
Donations can be made to the James F. Dobson Medical Fund at Carter Bank & Trust, 10407 Courthouse Road, Spotsylvania, Va., 22553.
James Dobson has always been a sports fan. There's a life-size cutout of wrestler John Cena in the den, a photo in the hallway of James throwing out the first pitch at a Baltimore Orioles game, and an NFL spread on his bed. Dallas Cowboys memorabilia fills his room.
Even though he can't talk anymore, James makes it very clear that, because of his fondness for the Cowboys, he doesn't like the Washington Redskins.
"Don't you like RGIII?" he was asked, about the Redskins' new quarterback, Robert Griffin III.
James vigorously--no, make that adamantly--shook his head "no."